貌似很多人在为这个曾经安静的男人喊冤叫屈。对弱者的同情我认为是人的一种自动反应，这种反应很多时候是好的，但是在面对冻僵的蛇的时候，我们的这种自动反应会让我们变为被蛇咬的农夫，让我们变为为恶人洗地的圣母。他是个安静的男人是不是？你觉得他安静，无害是不是？那就让我们看看其他一些曾经安静的男人。马加爵。“平時，馬加爵是一個低調而且冷靜的人。沉迷在自己的世界裡，不喜歡與人深交。”来自people.com.cn。白银连环杀人案高承勇。“高承勇……在隐匿的28年里，他去过稀土厂打工、去过内蒙古谋生，在白银开过小卖店，给绝大多数人的印象都是和善、少言。” 来自《高承勇的3张脸》。还有章莹颖案的Brendt Christensen。"He was chill. " 来自reddit上上过他的课的一位学生。“A former classmate, Souvik Dutta, said he was “dumbfounded” by the news, recalling Christensen as a normal guy and “very calm”.”来自theguradian.com。 "Most of us who were working out were usually talkative and in a good mood, but Christensen was different," (Jon) Bowman said. "He and the woman always wore black, and they kept to themselves. They never said anything to the rest of us." 来自news-gazette.com。这三个人都够安静吧？照样能给你惊喜。注意，安静既不是优点，也不是缺点，而只是一种特点而已。我们看一个人好坏，不是看他的气质是不是安静或闹腾，是内向或外向。很多人误解安静的人内向，内向的人不擅长人际交往。这些都是错误的看法。有些人安静，不是因为内向，而是因为逼格高，或内省力强，不喜欢跟普通人玩而已。有些人内向，但是人际技巧（情商）高超，只是不屑于跟普通人打成一片而已。总之，跟人打交道应该看一个人的人格品质和思想学识，而不是看别的，虽然我们确实会偏爱某些特点（不是优点）。
开头旁边说：
It was easier in the past. A man knew what it was to be a man. You stood up for things that were wrong. You had the right to do so. You were expected to do so. The way you lived, the training you put yourself through, prepared you for the inevitable confrontations, ones that could end in dismemberment or even death. Then something happened. We passed laws of decency. Lawyers became our shepherds. And what was once a fairly easy thing to understand became muddled in the bureaucracy of what we call being civilized. A man could no longer stand up to the wrongs that were around him. He had to go through courts and lawyers and trudge through miles of red tape. Women demanded equality, and she got it. Not by getting everything the man had, but by the man being castrated in the form of order. I don't care what you say. That's not progress. It's not evolution.
It's a disease, and it needs someone that understands what's at stake. Someone who can stand up like a real man and take action against injustice and unfairness in this world. Today. Right now. Before lunch. Number one for the office mascot. Number two for Miss Congeniality. Number three for "the early bird gets the worm."
你看他敌视文明，敌视女性，敌视比自己成功的人，就是一个脑子不好的人。有什么好洗地的？
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