第三集:女主violet像贝嫂,这一集也特别让我有感触,每个人都要为自己的人生负责,不能老等着别人道歉。
第七集:我最喜欢的一集,或许自己就天生不是一个帅的人,所以才会对电视剧里一段帅哥和丑男的性福生活颇感兴趣。这一集就在讨论同志圈最现实的问题——以貌取人。丑男frank一直追随着aiden,想和aiden谈恋爱。但是aiden还是越不过相貌的坎。当然,aiden说的一段话不管是丑帅配,还是帅帅配,都有这样的问题——新鲜感。
aiden:day 1, where you meet someone, share a spark, wonder if you got a chance, but day 1 is a trick of light. by day ten ,we're in bed and i'm wishing you were someone else. day 11 i pretend to listen to you whilst i'm eyeing up the guy behind you, im not gonna do anything with him, but i need you to know if i wanted, i could. day 20 the text messages whilst you're sleeping next to me, strangers, old shags, your boss. by 30s, cook shots, phone wanks, video links. day 40's kissing in the toilet of a bar when buy you drinks. day 50's sex with some random, some ex, someone whoever straight, gay, i dont care. day 60,61,62, you'll find out, cry, tell yourself like, "it was a one-off" or "i'm worth it". day 70's the last bit, when i meet someone new, day 1 with them.
我觉得每个基佬一定都遇到这两个问题。年初看的grace & frankie里也提到这个问题,连70多岁的基佬夫夫也引入了一个五六十岁的肌肉帅哥来润滑,更何况20出头的小年轻,求新鲜求好玩更是人之常情的。是不是新鲜感在稳定的同志感情里这么重要?
不过话说回来,年轻的时候玩够了,到了一定年纪才会幡然醒悟,寻求安定。或许是自己的人生只经历过两个男人,所以也纳闷着:如果我多交几个男友,现在的我会是什么样子?所以年轻就该燥起来。好基友从杭州毕业去了上海,他本是个内向的人,在交际和搅基上都是个慢热的人,在给他出主意的同时,我却也开玩笑但又认真的告诉他:趁年轻,能玩就玩一下,待真正安定下来,要出轨要open relationship要threesome或者别的,需要越过的坎可不是年轻单身时多打几个炮、多谈几段不认真的恋爱这么简单了。