'One of your own was murdered and you don't care? Imagine, this boy goes missing 3 days, his towel and car in plain view, and no one notices, not even his lover? OK, they weren't really together. But you guys have a strange way of loving each other sometimes. Can you imagine this young man's solitude? I'm not looking for compassion, or even solidarity. But show some concern, if only for yourself.… '