坠落的审判

a really sightful movie about psychology in the marriage relationship.it is really complicated to be put on a trial as long as two people's too long a history's concerned. we can't just jump the conclusion out of the context. sometimes it is even really hard to tell exactly who is right or wrong, who is the abuser or who is the victim. but i believe the wife are at least honest with herself although she has a lot of flaws according to the tradition and ethic. but that is also what makes her a normal human. while our victim is a dreamer or a self-proclamed victim in his own mind. but actually he should take responsibilties for his own, it is the reverse complaints most like a wife in most cases since it was the mother who really did the most sacrifices in a family. But the same leasson can be reached, we can only blame our own for our behavoir and the result we get. only by this we can grow and be resilient to accept the results. also the key line from the movie is that we expect too much maybe most of times. sometimes esp in family, win or lose is not the most important thing. Truth and lie also really hard to define. Most of times we only have our own version of story