另一个场景是Iris和老爷爷Arthur一起共进周末晚餐的时候,这名荣获无数电影奖项的迟暮老人对Iris说"Iris,in the movies,we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You,I can tell,are a leading lady but for some reason,you're behaving like the best friend",Arthur的一席话让Iris认同,恐怕也听到了很多人的心里,在生活中认为自己是微不足道的,渺小的人不在少数,特别是一些刚刚经历过不论是事业不顺,还是情感失败的挫折的人,人们总是会低估自己真正的实力和水平,继而持续低落的情绪很久,影片中的这句话就像是严寒冬日的一把篝火,驱赶了黑暗,照明了前进的道路。
生活中没有什么是一帆风顺的,感情尤为如此。Iris把自己的善良传播给了身边需要帮助的人,自己也从错误的感情中解脱大步迈向未来,我曾和Miles有一样的困惑,我为什么老是爱错人?在这部影片中,Iris帮我找到了答案,“after all that,you’ll go somewhere new,and you meet people who make you feel worthwhile again,and little pieces of your soul will finally come back,and all that fuzzy stuff,those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.”